Why 'I Don't Know' Is Still Dangerous

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One theme that's been on my mind lately is vulnerability. In many parts of corporate America, it's still treated as weakness rather than strength.

In my experience, the best teams rally around One Team One Dream. That sense of safety and unity doesn't happen by accident—it grows when people feel they can show up as themselves, admit mistakes, and ask for help without fear of judgment. Vulnerability is what turns "one team" from a slogan into a lived experience.

Unfortunately, I've also seen the opposite. In some organizations, admitting "I don't know" or asking for help puts a target on someone's back. Instead of being encouraged, those behaviors become reasons to judge or undermine. Over time, that kind of culture breeds fear. And fear, I've learned, is the fastest way to kill creativity, trust, and progress.

It's such a stark contrast to what I see every day in my six-year-old's kindergarten classroom. Kids ask "why" a hundred times a day. They take risks. They make mistakes. They learn out loud. And they're encouraged to do it—because that's how they grow. Somewhere along the way, that same behavior became dangerous in corporate settings, where it's too often punished instead of celebrated.

But the healthiest organizations take the opposite approach. They create psychological safety. They model patience, empathy, and respect. They celebrate curiosity, encourage experimentation, and treat mistakes as opportunities to learn. In that kind of environment, people trust each other, innovation flourishes, and One Team One Dream becomes more than words—it becomes the foundation of how the team operates.

Teams that learn from one another grow together—and I believe that will always be one of the key ingredients that sets the most successful organizations apart from the rest.